What is this Twitter thing?
mensaje de esta noche
Es mucho lo que quiero decir, pero como no sé hablar, y siempre hablo de más trataré de decir lo que siento. Siento que a veces todo funciona a la perfección, cada particula del universo se mueve y actúa conforme al plan maestro del universo, si es que algo así existe, pero de no ser así, esa es la sensación que percibo.
Sin embargo en ocasiones despierto de ese letargo y todo parece tan aleatorio y sin sentido que me deprime, y me siento mal de no ser igual a todas la personas similares a mí, de emocionarme y preocuparme por todas las cosas que la gente normal hace y procurarme un porvenir parecido al que todas buscan.
Si en realiad ambos escenarios parecen tan áridos, ¿Cuál sería el verdadero valor de forjarme un porvenir concebido desde mi pensamiento y cual el valor de robarlo del esterepotipo común?, del que todos obtienen la información suficiente para no tener que hacer preguntas.
No siempre encuentro la paz en mis respuesas, y conforme más actúo de acuerdo a lo que pienso más información falta, pero ahora que tocó este punto, me doy cuenta que no es en sí que me arrepienta, es más bien que conforme más acertijos resuelvo, más dudas, menos paz, más conflictos, más soledad, mucho más preguntas encuentro.
Y eso debe estar bien, pero es tan incomodo cuando lo único que quieres es que alguien te escuche y te mire, y haga más un esfuerzo por darte cobijo que por entenderte. un descanso irracional de la mente para poder sucumbir a lo que más anhelamos todos. Sentirnos amados.
Supongo que el origen primero de ese sentimiento proviene de uno mismo, y que sólo por medio del entendimiento del concepto y de la madurez suficiente de afrontar la realidad tal y como es, es posible amarse a sí mismo y a su vez de esa manera brindarse a los demás.
Creo que es eso, y sólo por medio de la introspección, se puede alcanzar por momentos la salida del ese túnel de pesadillas y de sueños, de recuerdos y de ideas… de momentos del pasado mezclados con la soledad del presente y el dolor de no comprender el propio actuar de antes, en las ideas del hoy.
¿Qué es amar?
*amar es sentir que alguien te ve
*que escucha y recuerda lo que dices
*que no te importa dejarlo todo por esa persona
*que esta en tus sueños
*que es tan hermosa que no puedes ver a nadie más
*que te excita su manera de hablar de reir y de pensar
*que no te importaría morir, porque ya la conociste
*que aunque todo se acabara esta noche, tu tienes para siempre momentos con esa persona
*que duermas pensando en esa persona
*que despiertes pensando en esa persona
*que cuando te enojas no puedes esperar un segundo para arreglarlo
*que dejes hasta de ser tú por complacerla
*que te guie y te enseñe
*que quieras ser una mejor persona
*que hagas planes juntos
*que después de la euforia de los primeros meses le robes un beso sin razon
*que todas sus imperfecciones te parezcan adorables
*que su voz te toque los huesos
*que su risa alimente tu alma
*que su ausencia te haga llorar
*que despues de años sigas sientiendo sus besos
*para mi, eso es amar.
Firebug puede reducir la velocidad de Gmail
Para obtener el mejor rendimiento de Gmail, te sugerimos que inhabilites Firebug para http://www.google.com.
Usuarios de Windows o Linux
Para inhabilitar Firebug:
- Para abrir el panel de Firebug en la pestaña de Gmail, haz clic en el icono de Firebug.
- Haz clic en la flecha que hay al lado de la pestaña Red y selecciona Inhabilitar supervisión para mail.google.com.
- Repite el paso 2 en las pestañas Consola y Secuencia de comandos.
Si deseas mantener Firebug en funcionamiento, puedes mejorar el rendimiento de Gmail siguiendo estos pasos:
- Haz clic en el icono verde o rojo situado en la esquina inferior derecha de la ventana del navegador para abrir Firebug.
- Haz clic en la pestaña Consola.
- Selecciona Opciones.
- Desmarca Mostrar XMLHttpRequests.
- Haz clic en la pestaña Red.
- Selecciona Opciones.
- Marca Inhabilitar supervisión de red.
Usuarios de Mac
Para inhabilitar Firebug:
- Haz clic en el icono verde o rojo situado en la esquina inferior derecha de la ventana del navegador para abrir Firebug.
- Haz clic en el icono de error en la esquina superior izquierda de Firebug y selecciona «Inhabilitar Firebug para mail.google.com».
La inhabilitación de Firebug para Gmail no mejora los resultados de rendimiento; es posible que tengas que inhabilitar Firebug por completo.
Study: Women Always Answer Their Phones Unless They’re Having Great Sex With Someone Else
Researchers say this is what is happening 100 percent of the time when women don’t answer their phones. The findings were consistent across all demographic groups in a sampling of 500 females between the ages of 18 to 35, which included women who were romantically involved with the caller but had requested some time apart to clear their heads, as well as women who had dated the caller briefly but assumed it was understood by both parties that the relationship had not worked out.
«No matter who they were, or what their perceived or actual relationship with the male caller was, women who failed to pick up the phone were statistically all but certain to be deep in the throes of coital passion with one or more virile lovers at the time of the call,» researcher Patrick Berger said. «In addition, a vast majority of the female participants we observed had seemingly forgotten all about the relationship they once had with the caller, and were, in fact, completely consumed by the vaginal gratification they were currently receiving.»
«A type of gratification they would hesitate to even call ‘sex,’ since it was so much more intense and transcendent than any kind of sex they had experienced before,» Berger added.
The study revealed that 80 percent of the time, women who declined to answer their phones were, at that very moment, being sexually pleasured by a man superior to the caller in terms of looks, genital endowment, and stamina. Researchers also found that a majority of women picked up the phone, examined the caller ID, and told their male lover «It’s nobody» before continuing with sexual intercourse.
In another 15 percent of cases, female research subjects had just journeyed to a land of pure sexual delight with another man and were, at the time the phone rang, smoking a cigarette while letting their fingertips graze over the unusually thick penis that had just brought them to, on average, four orgasms. The remaining 5 percent of non-answerers consisted of women who were stimulating their own genitals, either while talking on the phone to another man, instant-messaging another man, or simply imagining another man who had sexually turned them inside out on a recent occasion.
«It’s true that in a negligible number of cases, women did not answer because their cell battery had legitimately died,» Berger said. «But in each instance, they had either failed to charge their phone because they’d spent the night in someone else’s apartment, or had used up their battery’s power sending pictures of their naked body to another man.»
The study emphasized that while women who failed to answer the phone were almost unquestionably with someone else enjoying the most volcanic sensual escapade they’d ever had, there was also the possibility that they were busy gazing deeply into another man’s eyes, knowing and feeling a type of love they had never known or felt before.
«In many cases, during the time of the call, the woman was spending the afternoon with the man at that museum she’s always wanted to visit, afterward watching the sunset from the deck of the man’s boat,» said social psychologist Michael Corbin, a coauthor of the study. «In each case, the woman didn’t want a ringtone ruining a moment of true spiritual connection with the first man she had ever really, truly loved with all her heart.»
«Sex, however, always occurred subsequently,» Corbin added.
According to the researchers, the findings of this latest study are fully consistent with their previous behavioral investigations.
«Our prior research has already demonstrated that any communication between women and their old high school boyfriends will result in sexual relations and that a girls’ night out invariably leads to sexual contact with multiple men met in bars,» Corbin said. «We won’t be surprised if instances of women getting a drink after work with that cool, funny male coworker they’re always talking about yield similar results.»
The study also concluded that 99 percent of women who pick up the phone quickly and enthusiastically do so because they are expecting a call from another man.
How to become a manager
1. Communication
There’s a lot of communication when you’re a manager. You have to communicate with each of your employees. You have to communicate “sideways” with your co-workers and customers. And you have to communicate upwards with your own manager or executive. You need some substance in the communication, of course — you need to have something worthy of being communicated. But substance isn’t enough — if you know what you’re doing and can’t properly communicate it to anyone else, then you’ll never be a good manager.
2. Listening Skills
This is a part of communication, but I want to single it out because it’s so important. Some managers get so impressed with themselves that they spend much more of their time telling people things than they spend listening. But no matter how high you go in the management hierarchy, you need to be able to listen. It’s the only way you’re really going to find out what’s going on in your organization, and it’s the only way that you’ll ever learn to be a better manager.
3. A Commitment to the Truth
You’ll find that the higher you are in the management hierarchy, the less likely you are to be in touch with reality. Managers get a lot of brown-nosing, and people tend to sugar-coat the news and tell managers what they want to hear. The only way you’ll get the truth is if you insist on it. Listen to what people tell you, and ask questions to probe for the truth. Develop information sources outside of the chain of command and regularly listen to those sources as well. Make sure you know the truth — even if it’s not good news.
4. Empathy
This is the softer side of listening and truth. You should be able to understand how people feel, why they feel that way, and what you can do to make them feel differently. Empathy is especially important when you’re dealing with your customers. And whether you think so or not, you’ll always have customers. Customers are the people who derive benefit from the work you do. If no one derives benefit from your work, then what’s the point of keeping your organization around?
5. Persuasion
Put all four of the preceding skills together, because you’ll need them when you try to persuade someone to do something you want done. You could describe this as “selling” but it’s more general. Whether you’re trying to convince your employees to give you a better effort, your boss to give you a bigger budget, or your customers to agree to something you want to do for them, your persuasion skills will be strained to their limits.
6. Leadership
Leadership is a specialized form of persuasion focused on getting other people to follow you in the direction you want to go. It’s assumed that the leader will march into battle at the head of the army, so be prepared to make the same sacrifices you’re asking your employees to make.
7. Focus
The key to successful leadership is focus. You can’t lead in a hundred different directions at once, so setting an effective leadership direction depends on your decision not to lead in the other directions. Focusing light rays means concentrating the light energy on one spot. Focusing effort means picking the most important thing to do and then concentrating your team’s effort on doing it.
8. Division of Work
This is the ability to break down large tasks into sub-tasks that can be assigned to individual employees. It’s a tricky skill — maybe more an art than a science, almost like cutting a diamond. Ideally you want to figure out how to accomplish a large objective by dividing the work up into manageable chunks. The people working on each chunk should be as autonomous as possible so that the tasks don’t get bogged down in endless discussion and debate. You have to pay careful attention to the interdependencies among the chunks. And you have to carefully assess each employee’s strengths, weaknesses and interests so that you can assign the best set of sub-tasks to each employee.
9. Obstacle Removal
Inevitably, problems will occur. Your ability to solve them is critical to the ongoing success of your organization. Part of your job is to remove the obstacles that are preventing your employees from doing their best.
10. Heat Absorption
Not all problems can be solved. When upper management complains about certain things that can’t be avoided (e.g., an unavoidable delay in a project deliverable), it’s your job to take the heat. But what’s more important, it’s your job to absorb the heat to keep it from reaching your employees. It’s the manager’s responsibility to meet objectives. If the objectives aren’t being met, then it’s the manager’s responsibility to:
- Make sure that upper management knows about the problem as early as possible.
- Take all possible steps to solve the problem with the resources you’ve been given.
- Suggest alternatives to management that will either solve the problem or minimize it. These other alternatives may propose the use of additional resources beyond the current budget, or they may propose a change in the objective that’s more achievable.
- Keep the problem from affecting the performance or morale of your employees.
11. Uncertainty Removal
When higher management can’t give you consistent direction in a certain area, it’s up to you to shield your employees from the confusion, remove the apparent uncertainty, and lead your employees in a consistent direction until there’s a good reason to change that direction.
12. Project Management
This is a more advanced skill that formalizes some of attributes 7 – 11. Although both “Management” and “Project Management” contain the word “management,” they aren’t the same thing. Management implies a focus on people, while Project Management implies a focus on the project objective. You can be a Manager and a Project Manager, or you can be a Manager without being a Project Manager. You can also be a Project Manager without being a Manager (in which case you don’t have people reporting to you — you just deal with overseeing the project-specific tasks).
13. Administrative and Financial Skills
Most managers have a budget, and you’ll have to be able to set the budget and then manage to it. You’ll also have to deal with hiring, firing, rewarding good employee performance, dealing with unacceptable performance from some employees, and generally making sure that your employees have the environment and tools they need to do their work. It’s ironic that this is skill number 13 (an unlucky number in some cultures), because a lot of managers hate this part of the job the most. But if you’re good at budgeting, you’ll find it much easier to do the things you want to do. And hiring and dealing with employees on a day-to-day basis is one of the key skills to give you the best, happiest and most productive employees.
Conclusion
This article explains some of the things you’ll need to learn before you become a successful manager. You can probably become a manager without having all of these skills, but you’ll need all of them to be really successful and to get promoted to higher levels of management.
For every one of these skills, there are various levels of performance. No one expects a new manager to be superior at every one of these skills, but you should be aware of all of them, and you should do everything you can to learn more about each skill. Some of that learning will come through education (like reading the articles on this web site — you might want to subscribe). But much of the learning will come through experience — trial and error.
Just learn as much as you can about each skill, take nothing for granted, and focus on doing the very best that you can do. Learn from your mistakes and try not to repeat them. And ask for feedback — in many cases you won’t know what you could do better unless someone tells you.
Related Posts and Articles
- Why Do You Want to Be a Manager?
- The 7 Biggest Challenges of a Manager
- First-Time Manager Stories of Failure and Success
- Advice for New Managers on How to Avoid Harwell’s Laws
- Why Middle Managers are Important
- How to Become a CIO
- How to Fail as a CIO
- Get Off the Train, and Join the Fleet (about motivating employees)
- 10 Rules for IT Job Success
- 8 Attributes of an Ideal Boss
- 18 Things I Believe about Business — a Manifesto
- What Managers Need to Know about IT (information about my book, Boiling the IT Frog, including an excerpt)
Justin Bieber the true story
Por esta noche
que esta noche es como tantas noches que nos amamos,
cuando mire tus ojos pretenderé que los conozco,
y hasta me conmoverán.
Cuando te abracen mis manos,
y no puedas escapar,
recuerda que nos conocemos de siempre,
que no estamos escapando,
que en realidad deseamos estar juntos.
Dejemos de lado la soledad por un rato,
sequemos las lágrimas e inventemos un pasado mejor,
hagamos de esta noche, la realidad que no tenemos,
sueños que no existen,
ni vendrán.
Al final puedes dormir en mis brazos,
te miraré mientras duermes y veré en tu cara a un ángel,
sentirás mis brazos y no temerás,
no abras los ojos, así seré quien tú desees.
Es mejor que no sepas mi nombre,
hoy seremos dos enamorados,
no un par de extraños solitarios.
Una revolución que no nos quita la vida
Cuanto más complejas se vuelven la cosas en nuestros das, llenos de opciones para absolutamente todo, las personas nos convertimo en medios para fines. No existimos sino es por medio de lo que tenemos a otros para dar.
Es increible cuando conoces a una persona desinteresada y amable, que comparte contigo algo propio por el simple placer de compartirlo, por eso semejante sencillez hoy en día cobra un valor especial.
Miro con tristeza la fragilidad de las personas y sus emociones, se mantienen constantemente cubiertos en

